She’s absolutely beautiful. Her grad dress fits her perfectly; accentuating her slender frame and square shoulders and the “cobalt blue” material highlights her large blue eyes. She’s our treasured daughter. She’s graduating from high school and she is ready to take on life!
Can you believe how time flies? It seems like only yesterday I was in emergency waiting for the x-ray results that proved that this little girl had swallowed a battery. Two circular watch batteries had been pried from a ‘talking doll’ and I had purposely pushed them farther up onto the counter, away from my daughter’s high chair. Less than three minutes later I looked at the batteries and to my horror there was only one. My daughter was standing in her high chair looking a little mischievous. My battery munching munchkin was too young to communicate clearly, so it was only a rhetorical question that I posed: “did you swallow that battery”? She just smiled. And we drove very fast to the hospital.
The x-ray made the doctor laugh. Apparently, circular metallic objects are very easy to detect on an x-ray. “Yes. It’s already through her stomach and it should pass through in no time”. He gave me the perfunctory instructions to inspect her diapers making sure she ‘discharged’ the battery within 24 hours. Funny.
She’s been my energizer bunny ever since. Movement and action is part of her existence. I adore her. Her energy, her sense of adventure and her posturing of strength and toughness is especially evident on the soccer field. She loves showing off her bruises.
Now, all dressed up for grad I can’t help but wonder what her future holds. Probably… more bruises. Life is hard. We all get bruised throughout life.
Right around the time when I was pregnant with this daughter, we had a wooden plaque with a scripture verse etched into it. It hung by the phone and I read it often. It was the same verse that was highlighted at our church’s grad festivities. It reads:
“The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms.”
Deuteronomy 33:27
This verse meant so much to me during my young mothering years. Now I pass it on to my graduating daughter. How grateful I am that my heavenly Father is our refuge. Refuge – meh-o-naw’ (Hebrew). It means a “habitation, dwelling place, refuge”. This is a place where one can live.
My girl is growing up. I won’t always have her at home. But I know that our Heavenly Father can always be her home. He will be a refuge in times of trouble and a place where she can live daily. That’s way more than I can offer. Remember… she swallowed a battery when she was on “my” watch!
I won’t always be there to give my daughter the hugs that she needs but I know that God’s everlasting arms will wrap around her. He has her in the center of his embrace, and that is exactly the best place to be.
I’ve enjoyed the years God has blessed me with my beautiful daughter. Now as she walks across the stage to receive her high school diploma, she is embarking on another stage of life. My prayer is that God will be her refuge and that she will always feel the embrace of his everlasting arms.